why when a lady gets hurt why do they think that all men are a like . they feel like since the first one hurt them the next one will. but its not like that all men are not a like . i know that i ant i know how to treat a lady with love and respect . and treat her like the queen she is . and dont look on the outside but the inside is what love is really about .

don't men do that too? If ya'll come across one chick thats a hoe and did you wrong, ya'll take it out on the next. Bottome line is that you have to let go of the past and trust the next person until they give you a reason not to trust them.

i agree with sexylady....i had 2 learn 2 trust the next n 4get bout da ex....

WELL SORRY I KINDA AGREE WIT SEXYLADY, N CONFUSED. BUT IF U REALLY MEAN EVERYTHING I JUS READ, DEN PROVE IT AS SOON AS U GET AH CHANCE DO WAT U HAVE 2 DO 2 PROVE 2 DAT SOS DAT SHE MEANS DA WORLD 2 U HELL PROVE IT 2 ME FA ALL I CARE, HELL LET ME B DA SOS, N QUEEN U TALKIN BOUT SHYT ALL DAT I DUN BEEN THRU I DESERVE AH GOOD LOVIN MAN, CAN U B DA ONE!!! LOL (I THINK)

i believe the majority of the men are all the same..but thier are sum good ones out there..wayyy out there hiding..

Every guy I've been with treated me badly so at this point I just feel its me. I don't believe that all men are the same or that the guys that did me wrong will treat all women that way. I avoid relationships because I don't feel that any man can be good to ME.

Most girls can openly admit that they always go back to the same guy, so sometimes a girl will just think "oh I shouldn't even try because I'm attracted to him". It goes both ways.